The reality of this situation is that...they may very well have moved on emotionally from the relationship and really don't want to be put into a hard position. A lot of the time it's because they don't want to put in any more effort as they don't see the point. What you really need to be asking in this situation is why you REALLY want to meet up with you ex!
As much as we don't want to admit it, a lot of the time its because we want to rekindle a past relationship because you are currently alone and have a real fear of it. In moments like this you are at your most vulnerable and irrational, you crave what you used to have and start thinking that it might be better the next time around...the truth is that...there is a reason you are ex's. People who are ex's get together again all the time, they think that they can make the relationship work again but the truth is people change and you may not be compatible anymore.
Sit down, alone and think about why it really matters that much to you. You may still love them but take a second to think if they are really the right person for you right now. Isn't it the best idea to love yourself and learn who you are so that you ARE ready for the right person the next time around?
When you break up with someone that is the perfect opportunity for you to grow as an individual and helps you to become a better person for the best person that comes along next time. Review all of your past relationship failures (yes thats an ugly word) however if you REALLY learn something from them then you will be able to ensure you don't make the same mistakes time and time again.
When your ex says they don't want to catch up, for whatever reason they may give, they are saying to you that they are wanting to move on with their life...that's the sign you need to move on with yours too.
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